Moving Out


Although I’m 23 years old I’ve never lived away from my parents before so moving out to live in halls at university is going to be a big step for me. I’m confident that I’ll be able to manage the basics of living but what makes me most nervous is having to live alongside other people who I don’t know.

Even a few months ago I would have been terrified at the prospect but talking through things with my friend SM has given me a lot more confidence. She has SA too and moved very far across the country to go to university and has managed alright. In fact I’d go so far as to say I’d never have seriously considered going back to uni if it wasn’t for her. When she told me about how much she wanted to do the career she has chosen, it reminded me of how passionate I was about computing before the depression and long period of unemployment drained my enthusiasm. I want so much to make something of my life and fulfil the potential I showed as a child and teenager.

I’m looking forward to the opportunity to be around other people my age (or younger as they will mostly be 18 I guess) . It’s been a long time and I’ve hit a wall trying to overcome SA because I don’t have the chance to socialise much even if I could any more since I don’t have any friends nearby and I don’t know how to meet people, but starting university is a time when people are more open to forming new friendships so I’ll feel more comfortable about approaching people.



2 thoughts on “Moving Out

  1. mspennylane

    Good luck with it! Do you move in september? when I moved into halls it wasn’t hard because everyone talks to everyone and everyone wants to be everyone else’s friend – at least that’s what I experienced! But you soon realise you don’t actually want or need to be everyone else’s friend anyway 😉


  2. Thank you! Yes I’ll be moving in September or October depending on whether I can get into my first choice or not. Glad to hear you had a positive experience there 🙂


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